Bournemouth, Hampshire, UK
Scottish Highlands, UK
Prague, Czech Republic
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Bournemouth, Hampshire, UK
Scottish Highlands, UK
Prague, Czech Republic
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
This is my six part summer spanning two coasts and two continents. It began in Boston College, shifted to Northeastern University, migrated to California, and ended in London. This is how it went…
Part 1: Sophomore Year Ends
Part 2: TJX Buying Internship Weeks 1-6
Part 3: TJX Buying Internship Weeks 7-12
Part 4: See You Soon BC
Part 5: Back to the Bay
Part 6: To Be Discovered in London…
Most importantly, 2016 was the year of developing new connections and deepening existing friendships. I am left with overwhelming gratitude for all the people who have entered my life in the past twelve months, and I can’t wait to see what 2017 has in store for us all.
Since May, I have been the News Editor for The Gavel, BC’s online progressive student publication. As News Editor, I manage the news staff (an Associate Editor and multiple Staff Writers), come up with article ideas, write and edit articles, create the posting budget for the week, and am overall responsible for all news content.
For news, we post once a week during the summer and four or more times during the regular school week. During my time leading the section, I have doubled the online views of our news articles by consistently producing quality content.
Furthermore, the best part about writing news is breaking news. And almost every week so far this semester, we have posted one breaking (or near-breaking) news piece that gets a large number of views. One week it was about bug-infested broccoli in the dining hall, which received 2,400 views in 24 hours, and last week it was on the solidarity march I attended in support of queer students, students of color, and students with disabilities on campus, which received almost 430 views.
These numbers might not mean anything out of context, but they are big for our news section.
When I was asked to be News Editor at the end of freshman year, I was both honored and surprised. As an Editorial Assistant, I was on the fast track for an editorial position, but I didn’t think that I would get to lead an entire section so soon.
I am so glad I accepted the position and that I’ve made The Gavel one of my main priorities this year. It is reassuring and encouraging to be recognized for the positive impact my leadership has had on the news section! It is always nice to get a shoutout.
I was on a student panel today for the Career Center’s Parent’s Weekend presentation. In front of a theater full(ish) of parents, I shared a snippet of my career journey thus far. This is what I learned.
Almost a year ago, I was on 48 Hours, a freshman retreat run by the Office of First Year Experience. On this retreat, one of the activities involved birthdays, and I discovered that I shared a birthday with Biz, the leader of the retreat and Director of FYE. We had a brief conversation that weekend, but afterwards, I sent Biz a thank you email and a brief reflection of my 48 Hours experience.
Two weeks later, I got an email saying that I had been personally nominated for the LeaderShape Institute, a free 6-day leadership development and community building retreat. It turns out, Biz had nominated me. Naturally, I applied and attended. It sounded right up my alley.
LeaderShape turned out to be the highlight of my entire freshman year. It immersed me in a community of like-minded individuals who had greater visions not only for themselves, but also for their communities and the world in general. LeaderShape reminded me that I thrive on one-on-one authentic relationships, which was missing from my first semester. And the notions of living and leading with integrity and having a healthy disregard for the impossible set the tone for the rest of my year.
In fact, the Associate Director of the Career Center was my small group leader on LeaderShape, and it was my relationship with him that got me on the panel in the first place.
During the spring, I also interned for Date My Wardrobe, a fashion tech startup in Boston founded by an amazing female entrepreneur, Amrita Aviyente. Amrita turned out to become a great personal and professional mentor for me to this day, advocating for my growth and exposing me to the intersection between fashion and business. And seeing that I had been interested in fashion since secretly wanting to be a fashion designer when I was eight, this internship was a big step for me towards fashion as a potential career path.
That semester, I also took a course called Courage to Know with Biz as my professor. One of our assignments was to do a vocational interview, in which we reached out to someone with a vocation we aspired to or wanted to learn more about. At this point, I was still flirting with the idea of chemistry or philosophy, but was ultimately undecided with my major and unsure of my direction.
However, ethical fashion was on my mind because of an informational interview I did with Esther Chen Meyers, the founder of bonJOY, over winter break. After stalking the LinkedIn BC Alumni group, I came across Esther and was instantly intrigued by her career path. She was kind enough to respond to me, and we ended up meeting one day to chat about her time in college, her career, and her founding of bonJOY. So to find someone I was interested in the vocation of, I googled “ethical fashion companies in Boston”. One of the first links to pop up was The Good Trade.
The founder of The Good Trade, AmyAnn Cadwell, was also kind enough to respond to me and set up a time to FaceTime (she also knew Esther!). Other than being an all-around inspiring and relatable person, she made a particularly poignant point. She said that although saying yes to one thing might mean saying no to many other things, I have to trust that saying yes will lead to other yeses I can’t possibly foresee or predict. There is something inherently uncomfortable about taking life one step at a time without knowing exactly what you’re walking towards. Nevertheless, my experience at BC has really epitomized that idea of one small moment changing everything.
My conversation with AmyAnn encouraged me to explore ethical fashion, conscious consumerism, and social entrepreneurship as a potential career realm. So I reached out to Esther about interning with bonJOY over the summer. And as I’ve said before, interning for bonJOY was a truly wonderful experience because it convinced me of my genuine passion for ethical fashion, so much so that I see the intersection of international studies, business, fashion, and social good as my potential “end”.
And to think that it all started with sharing a birthday with Biz. Had that connection not been made, I honestly don’t know where I would be. But I am so grateful for all the mentors, experiences, and opportunities in the past year that have fundamentally changed or reassured my direction.
Although the path was very unclear along the way (and still is), everything connects in retrospect. Yet, it required putting myself out there to create opportunities and having the guidance of mentors, formal and informal, who encouraged me to discern my passions and follow my gut.
Last week, I attended a lecture on the Economy for the Common Good (ECG), an idea and a social movement that centers around a holistic economic model in which all economic activity serves the Common Good. The speaker, Christian Felber, is an Austrian activist and the author of Changing Everything: Creating an Economy for the Common Good.
I had never heard of ECG before this lecture, but as Felber introduced the model, the process, and the movement, I was instantaneously intrigued. Essentially, ECG is a proposal to replace capitalism and communism. No constitution across the world states that the economy should serve anything other than the Common Good. Yet, the way we measure success of the economy is through monetary gains: GDP, financial profit, ROI.
Felber discussed the original meaning of the word “economy” and how the definition of economy is distorted today. Derived from the Greek word “oikonomia”, “economy” means “law of the household”—with the two houses being humanity and nature. The economy should have soul; it should serve these two houses. Aristotle contrasted oikonomia, in which money is a means to the good life, with chrematistic, in which money is the end in itself (i.e. capitalism). With an Economy for the Common Good, all businesses and economic activity would fundamentally serve the world as a whole. Isn’t that the dream?
Instead of measuring economic success as financial gains, the Common Good Balance Sheet should be used. This audit would give a point-based account of how well a company fulfills the five most important constitutional values of democratic states: human dignity, cooperation, sustainability, justice and democracy.
And sovereign democracy (i.e. returning sovereign rights like writing and editing the constitution, electing government, issuing money, etc. to the people) is the process through which to determine these Common Good Balance Sheet on local, state, and national levels. As an audience, Felber led us through an example of how this might work. He wanted us, as the Boston constituency, to set the maximum income limit for Boston. One times the minimum income would be complete equality (everyone earning the same regardless of position), and infinite times the minimum income would be complete inequality (i.e. no limit, i.e. capitalism in America). He asked for the audience members to propose how many times they think it should be. The options that were raised were 1, 60, 1000, and infinite. The option with the least resistance would be chosen, with resistance being counted through the number of arms in total held up by the group.
Our group chose 1000 times the minimum income. But Felber said he was very surprised by this result. Apparently, after performing the same exercise with groups across the world, the average maximum income is always found to be around 10 times the minimum income, and he had only gotten this result one other time–with a group of CEOs in Germany. Clearly, individuals at BC (or at least those in the audience attending the event) feel comparably as privileged as German CEOs—disappointing but not surprising. The point of the exercise was that direct participation can make the lawmaking process so much more efficient and so much more representative of what the people really want.
During the presentation, I was so taken by this movement because ECG captures everything I believe in about ethical fashion and goes far beyond it as well. On one slide, Felber showed an image of a QR code. The corresponding idea was that in the future, all products would have a scannable label that would provide an immediate, transparent report about the Common Good of the company in question. This, alongside incentivizing the Common Good, is a way to combat our current, backwards system of less ethical companies being better off than ethical companies because their products are cheaper. And if this were applied to the fashion industry, with each clothing label providing a full report on how and where that item was made, the market would ideally lead to greater awareness, curiosity, and demand for ethical fashion.
Yet, it is not enough to create an attractive model that 90% of citizens agree with if the government and representatives don’t support it. Despite “democracy”, the masses in nations across the world don’t have the power. But we must have hope that it can get better. Furthermore, in comparison to the power of those currently controlling the global economy (large corporations and governments), ECG is a relatively powerless movement. So global collective (and potentially disruptive) action is necessary.
Almost a month has gone by since I’ve been back in Boston, and almost a week has gone by since the first day of classes. RA training brought me back in the beginning of August for a whirlwind of 13-hour-days, staff bonding, and incoming freshmen. This jumpstart to the year gave me an opportunity to slowly transition from summer to school. Unlike other upperclassmen, I was quickly settled in my cozy (albeit tiny) room, back in the rhythm of living on my own, and ready to start classes with excitement rather than anxiety.
After the official end of summer and the official start of classes, my feelings are of gratitude and anticipation. My RA experience has, more than anything else, reminded me how fortunate I am to be where I am and who I am. I’m also resoundingly thankful to have wonderful friends and professors who I can turn to and rely on during my time at BC.
This semester, I planned on taking Political Behavior and Participation and Computer Science, but a stressful life-planning-spreadsheet moment towards the end of the summer led me to drop those classes and switch them for Social Movements and Macroeconomics (both of which count towards my International Studies major whereas the other two classes don’t). And so far, I am pleased with my updated schedule, which also features Online Communication and Global Society and Western Cultural Tradition (my Honors Program class).
My new plan for college consists of two main priorities. First, I was accepted into the International Studies major at the start of summer, so finishing the major (and the 12 classes I still have to take for it) has become my number one priority. My number two priority–and I’ve previously gone back-and-forth on this–is to study abroad in London for the entirety of my junior year (which essentially eliminates a year of International Studies classes).
A year is a long time. And being back in BC this second time around has been so amazing that I’m already sad about it potentially being my penultimate year here. I will miss so many people. And for my close friends who are currently juniors, I will miss their senior years!
But going abroad is my priority. Not because this is my only chance to travel, but because it’s a rare chance to immerse myself in an entirely different culture (across the Atlantic Ocean) without actually paying to live there as a full-time adult. I want to experience living in a variety of locations and countries while I am still relatively free of responsibility, and this will be my first way of doing that. Plus, I will be physically closer to family than I am right now.
My convictions may waver this year, as the date for applying to study abroad rapidly approaches and my time at BC ticks aways, but as long as I stay true to my core values, remain connected to those around me, and do what feels right in the moment, I am confident that my college experience will continue in a positive direction.
Cut, curl, glue, pinch, cut, curl, glue, pinch. This has been my life for several hours over the past two days. Unattractive, off-white bricks line the walls of my “cozy” (small) dorm room. Seeing as the brick doesn’t entirely go with my white, orange, and grey color scheme, the large blank space above my two-seater sofa simply couldn’t do. But these paper flowers do the trick.
Thank goodness for my countless subscriptions on YouTube. When the video below popped up on my feed, I instantly recognized the solution.
This eye-catching yet relatively simple method of creating large paper flowers out of card stock and glue was ideal for me: a college student who doesn’t want to spend money on something she can make herself.
Because Ann Le’s video wasn’t step-by-step, the less entertaining video below was more instructive.
Some things I found helpful were:
Now all that’s left is to cross my fingers and hope that my assortment of Command strips will hold these petals up for the rest of the year!
1. There is more value to a college education than pure academics. As much as I knew that learning in college would transcend the classroom, it was only until second semester that I truly came to value the nonacademic side of a BC education, which involves the Jesuit concept of cura personalis (care for the whole person). It’s being attentive, being reflective, and being loving. Only through nurturing all aspects of my humanity – relational, reflective, physical, emotional – will I practice discernment and remain conscientious about how I choose to live my life. And to anyone who hasn’t been exposed to Catholic or Jesuit education, this all sounds a bit wishy washy, but it’s so rewarding to keep an open mind.
2. Mentors and sponsors are vital. One of my professors said that your primary job in college is to find mentors. I have been fortunate enough to find a few professors this year who I would consider mentors. Whenever I felt overwhelmed or troubled, or even when I simply felt like taking a step back from the business of everyday college life, I would shoot one (or all) of them an email and set up times to meet. Although I would sometimes leave slightly more confused than before, each encounter would challenge me to think more deeply about what I wanted from my four years.
3. It’s okay to not be a STEM major. Coming to accept the notion that I don’t have to be a STEM major in order to be “successful” in life has definitely been a process. Growing up in Silicon Valley, the prominent message is that science, math, and engineering are the most respectable and praise-worthy pursuits. But unless I follow what my gut is telling me to do, I am doing a disservice to everyone including myself.
4. Your first friend won’t likely be your best friend. In the moment, when you just want friends to hang out with, you can confuse a friendship of convenience (by location or necessity) with true friendship. The more common experience is that you begin to find your people after at least a few months, because that is when most people tire of portraying a facade and simply are who they are (or at least that’s what I found to be true).
5. One-on-one friend dates are life. My favorite way to spend time with someone is one-on-one. It likely has to do with quality time being my love language, but I love it when I’m hanging out with a friend and she isn’t checking her phone every five minutes. When you have someone’s full attention and you give someone your full attention in return, conversation flourishes and connections forge.
6. Dating for practice is a potentially great thing. How else do you end up married with children? How else to you figure out what you seek in a relationship? And college is the ideal time to practice: You are in a bubble with people your age who you know through, at most, a couple degrees of separation. It’s not as risky.
7. It’s hard but vital to say no. Extracurricular involvements can become a runaway train unless I learn to say no to things. And it’s tricky because there are so many amazing opportunities out there! But it’s ultimately a matter of priorities and giving myself the freedom to allow the experiences I do say yes to sink in.
8. Planned spontaneity is not that spontaneous. During the school year, I am dependent on my daily planner. The majority of my time is planned out with class, work, or activities. Even my “free time” is planned out. But that’s not spontaneous. And while I’m young and relatively free of responsibility, I can afford to be spontaneous (even if it feels against my nature). So I want to take advantage of unplanned spontaneity while I can.
9. -26°F is
pretty very cold. Though this winter was apparently very mild, the one time the weather was ridiculously cold happened to be the night of a ball, so I was in a dress without any tights on at night. Running maybe 30 yards from the hotel to the Uber was the coldest I have ever been. I was running through an ice box. Unpleasant is an understatement.
10. BC is the right fit for me. I spent first semester trying to answer this question: Am I happy at BC? And I feel so fortunate to have discovered that the answer is yes. It took a catalytic experience like LeaderShape (a week-long leadership and community building retreat) for me to realize how many amazing people are at BC. It might not be the most academically prestigious school, but like I said in my first point, BC for me is more about all the other “stuff”. It’s about the relationships. It’s about the mentorship. It’s about the vocational discernment. It’s about Boston. It’s about the opportunities. And it’s about the people.